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Boutonniere on the A Train – Public Art & Robin Strayhorn

September 1, 2020 By Peter Harris 1 Comment

Here’s another embossed Metro Moment:

I saw a brother striding to exit the train. Just before he stepped through open doors, he stuffed a roll of U.S. currency into the hand of a Latina holding her baby. Could have been a dollar, could have been a thousand. Body language suggested they were strangers and that I’d just witnessed an act of generosity, which was the inference drawn by this Black man of happiness.

I do keep my eyes peeled for public beauty. While on Metro, I’m people-watching big time. And no doubt, riding the trains and buses of LA, I witness America’s pain [homeless riders, drunk individuals, bold individuals shouting, selling, bullying …].

Yet I stay bent on peeping ‘Joy Vignettes!’ And often I’m a witness to America’s kindness.

I love witnessing adolescents, hoodie-wearing, pants sagging, shouting, ‘Thanks bus driver,’ when they clamber out the back door.

I’ve witnessed old heads holding brown bags of wine, or a half-pint of liquor, cheerily giving accurate directions to a family of European tourists.

I once smiled witnessing a 20-something young cat look up from his drawing pad to patiently explain to a dude smelling like four or five yesterdays:

‘No, bruh, you on the wrong train; you need to get off and go back to 7th & Metro.’

And all riders, whether we notice or not, are surrounded by “innovative, award-winning visual and performing arts” integrated into Metro stations.

According to Metro’s website, “Metro Art … connects people, sites and neighborhoods throughout Los Angeles County… improving the visual quality of transit environments and creating a sense of place….” 

Unable to ride the Metro during the Covid 19 pandemic, I’ve missed entering the subtle fields of beauty that public art provides to stations.

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I see public art as, like, boutonnieres and corsages, which I wear like I’m heading off to the prom as I move through Metro stations.

At Union Station, I actually walk with a dancer’s attitude, when I gaze up at Richard Wyatt’s eighty-foot long mural that contains images of Native Americans and settlers of the LA basin as well as contemporary Angelenos in a row of dignified faces. It’s part of City of Dreams/River of History that also includes an undulating aquarium by May Sun that holds 7,500 gallons of water and is populated with indigenous coastal fish.

Or I bop rhythmically to “Take the A Train” playing as part of artist Bill Bell’s installation featuring twelve vertical light sticks producing varying patterns of light and color beside the escalator to the red and purple lines.

“Take the A Train” was written by Billy Strayhorn, genius composer, arranger, and cultural icon. Duke Ellington said that Strayhorn was my “right arm, my left arm, all the eyes on the back of my head, my brainwaves in his head and his in mine,” according to an exhibition I swooned over at the American Jazz Museum in Kansas City.

And in some wonderful way of the world, Mr. Strayhorn’s great niece, Robin Strayhorn, has been an artistic muse and colleague of mine since the early 2000’s, when we began working together in classrooms and on public art projects. Robin’s color-infused art, including her public art, keeps my senses alert to awe in my life.

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Robin’s public art can be found all over Southern California. The Ontario International Airport features her Terrazzo Floor and Tile Mural. There’s her Central Avenue Jazz Park Mural and her Morningside Community Mural. You can find her work adorning the Hyde Park Branch Public Library and the Ascot Branch Public Library. Robin’s striking tile work is also featured at the Ted Watkins Park Flagpole and Pool House, Enterprise Park Pool House, and Gigante Supermarket.

And at Metro’s Imperial/Wilmington Station, she co-created with Michael Massenburg the marvelously elemental Pathways to Freedom, a tiled bench that evokes the bench bus seat Rosa Parks refused to relinquish in 1955.

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Originally, I wanted to jump in a car with Robin and interview her when we stopped at each of her public art projects. During the pandemic, I had to settle for a telephone Q/A, which I’ve excerpted in closing below.

Q: Why do you make public art?

Strayhorn: I like the idea of working with the community to create something that’s uplifting for people and to enliven people’s daily experience…. [Her public art practice was inspired by a 2004 trip to Spain, where she was blown away by the “artistic adventure of public art” by architect Antoni Gaudi.]

How did you get started making public art?

Strayhorn: I can’t pinpoint the exact moment when I became interested, however, I do remember I was exhibiting my work in Atlanta at the National Black Arts Festival. Varnette Honeywood inspired me to go. Showed me what to do, how to package my artwork, how to ship it. … I was there and remember running into Michael Massenburg,  and I mentioned that I had a strong desire to work in the public art realm. I wanted a wider audience. Michael said he’d just completed his first public art project. Within a year, I received a phone call from a friend who had purchased some of my artwork telling me she had given my phone number to Lydia Kennard, at the time the Executive Director of Los Angeles World Airports. I was an emerging artist at the time. We were all invited to create proposals for the Ontario International Airport. That is how I got started. And I was able to create couple of designs for the Ontario Airport.

I was nervous. It was a fast-track situation. Varnette again helped me. She said you need to look at something you’ve already done and expand on that. I had these mask-like images that I used to take into classes for kids to color. I ended up using those. I expanded upon them. Varnette encouraged me to look at what’s already there. ‘They already like your colors and your work,’ Varnette said, ‘so go with something you already have and that they’ve already shown interest in.’ She gave me so much other advice.

Recently, I saw a movie on Netflix that was filmed in Ontario airport, with Meryl Streep and Jeffery Wright. I saw my work, the terrazzo floor. I was, like, ‘Oh cool!’ I paused it and I took a screen shot. It was motivating to see it. A reminder to me of what’s possible.

What do you want your public art to accomplish?

Strayhorn: I want it to be inviting and to be aesthetically pleasing. I want it to aesthetically enhance the environment, to add to, and not take away, from the environment. I want it to be relevant to the community that it serves. In some cases, I want it to get people to think about something, or to inspire them. When I created the floor design at Ontario Airport, I wanted the art to be playful and welcoming, to give them, like, a blast of energy. One day I had to go there and get some better photographs of the floor. [I was told that a] lot of children are drawn to the mural. They like to jump on certain parts of the mural. Once it’s out there, it’s for everybody. It’s like giving birth to something, but it’s not for yourself. It’s for the whole community.

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Yes yes yes … People get ready there’s a train a coming.

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BONUS EXCERPT from my book, Black Man of Happiness: In Pursuit of My ‘Unalienable Right,’ WINNER, 2015 AMERICAN BOOK AWARD: “… HAPPINESS BURNS WITHIN: …One man’s life-affirming grito, shouted in the uncensored voice of a ‘long-distance runner’ for what’s refreshing and marvelous and courageous about being a man of witness and participation and conscience .…” www.blackmanofhappiness.com/shop

Respiration @ 1,000 O’Clock – Peace Transcends

August 1, 2020 By Peter Harris Leave a Comment

… Breathing, cradling my voice … Exhaling, following my song … Chiming, lifting my voice at 1,000 O’Clock ….

1,000 O’Clock? 

It’s sensuousness in time when I feel aligned. A kinetic turn of phrase that welcomes the staccato in search of social harmony. An invitation to sense the past, position the present within rigorous concentration, keep my 3rd eye on the prize of the future. It’s sensuousness in time when my voice is infused with fragrance through no choice of my own.

At 1,000 O’Clock, I actually Court Risk on behalf of my set point of constructive citizenship! The poet Khadijah Queen asked once about Courting Risk. I wrote in part:

It’s deeply personal and humbling. Haunts what seem to be almost pedestrian crossroads and thresholds. Risk is never generic. Plunging into integrity demanded in real time is riskiest: Can I say no when yes is easier? Will I disagree when nodding OK keeps the peace? Will I risk sounding defensive in order to defend myself, or my principles?  When I Court Risk, I concluded, I seek to salvage my subtlety, trust the immaterial, honor innocence, and work the inspirational without being naive.

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Quiet clarity can also suffuse me at 1,000 O’Clock. In 2015, I participated in a sunrise on the Atlantic island of Boipeba in Bahia, Brazil, while on a trip as Executive Director of  Viver Brasil’s Dancing at the Source program.

I felt saturated by ideas, impressions, languages, images. I was inspired to write SURGE in bold capital letters into a notebook that I then filled with drafts that I’ve since been developing into a manuscript. I was inspired to thank the founders of Viver Brasil for expanding my experiences with Afro Brazilian culture through dance classes, performances, and mentoring by elders. Later that day, I expressed my gratitude face-to-face.

But just before sunrise, I stood on a wide sandbar where river emptied into sea. I heard music. I heard my voice. I felt my breath cradling my voice. I exhaled my song. I felt my body ring. I was effortlessly alert, vibrating as if I chimed in tune with ALL. Lifting my voice, I walked well away from the shore, since the tide was out, and I can only weakly describe the sense of new birth I felt by saying that I was in trance. I kept hearing my voice in four concert settings: with men singing acapella; with women singing acapella; with a horn section; and with men, women & horn section in a culminating blend.

That concert framework became the centerpiece of an application to LA’s Department of Cultural Affairs for a COLA (City of LA) fellowship, which I was awarded in 2018. My award project was called TRANCE, which for budget and time constraints wound up as a suite for my poetry set to original music by the brilliant Ed Barguiarena for tuba, trombone, trumpet and French Horn.

At our recital on two nights in June 2018, Ed conducted TRANCE and our VoiceMusic explored and played with time and its pulsations, and reveled in the shifts and slippages between emotional states, in our best approximation of that magical morning on an island in Brazil. Our audience quilted their voices into my dialogue with the horn section. Together, we helped produce a testament to whole living.

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1,000 O’Clock is my best measurement of the unbidden and the unmeasurable.

All my life, during transcendent moments, I recall a sensation of floating, a state of irradiating ALL, if I was knee deep in an activity, or listening to someone explaining something in a way that riveted me. I melted into nothingness, with everything, cells bound in supple balance with life and death, timelessness and resolution.

As an administrator, I never performed with Viver Brasil’s dance and music ensemble. But for one concert, I contributed a poem called “Peace Transcends.” It was an honor and another way of expressing gratitude for an awesome experience in a place where river water flows into seawater.

Whose child am I?
See my mother in my whirlpools of Holy Waters …
Feel my father in explosions of cool young stars …
Find my family in voices singing of Enlightenment …
Mother, mother … I am your Earthly Child … I hunger for safety
Oh my father … I am your Divine Child … I search for beauty
Sweet Family … I am your Illuminated Child … I believe I am home
Birth glows behind my eyes … In my new voice I whisper
I am excited to know peace from every direction
I am excited to see the faces of peace
I am excited … Mother Mother … Oh My Father … Sweet Family
Peace transcends….

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BONUS EXCERPT from my book, Black Man of Happiness: In Pursuit of My ‘Unalienable Right,’ WINNER, 2015 AMERICAN BOOK AWARD: “…It is 1,000 O’clock. Illuminated Time and Place of integrity, thresholds, and destinations. The realm of transfiguration beyond date books and clocks. The Past has been mourned and mined. The Present is embossed and each instant feels electrified with potential. No hope is taboo. All visions are possible. No child stands in line for love. Lovers Rock. The women and men have integrated their hindsight into a resuscitated Present. At 1,000 O’clock, a man welcomes substantial inquiry. My calendar insinuates the countdown has begun. I feel aroused and sensual and poised.… It is 1,000 o’clock and I want to make a home in a house built on a foundation bolted to our grandparents’ chain gang demands, where the floors creak with closeted lovers’ Northstar resolve, and the walls, rooms, doors, and roof align with my mother’s bedtime prayers. I want to live a barefoot holiday with somebody, measure time by celebration, wilt he said/she said  with riveting telepathy of two humans face-to-face gossiping with kiss from mouths steady evolving beyond the need for speech.…” www.blackmanofhappiness.com/shop

Conversating – Phenomenal Pops’nAde

July 1, 2020 By Peter Harris Leave a Comment

With my youngest daughter Adenike, who celebrates a major birthday in July, I laugh, I grieve, I listen, I counsel, I encourage, I support, I debate, I argue, I learn.

I’m humbled and amazed at how close we’ve become in her adulthood.

In a 2018 TEDx Pasadena Talk we discussed our courageous collaboration of renewal after she revealed that her former stepfather sexually assaulted her.

Ironically, as I meditate on her upcoming birthday, that’s not the phenomenal part of our journey and our relationship that I want to celebrate here.

What’s amazing, to put it simply, is how we are living family as it really is. No formulas, just exceptional experiences grounded on a mutual goal of maintaining honesty, reliability, and trust.

Halfway through 2020, she’s even got me joyfully grimacing on Instagram and Facebook and co-creating internet programming.  

On January 25, 2020, we launched season one of a new podcast, Conversating with Pops’nAde, featuring 10 episodes of thoughtful, concise conversations between us.

We’re also producing ROAD TRIPPING, an unscripted web series, which will feature us taking road trips in search of ‘Celebration Conversations’ with men and women describing triumphs over trauma and pinpointing joy on their journeys.

All this conversating – and y’all know my Moms is turning over in her grave! – embodies our mantra: “We’re all worth healing and no silence is good that keeps you from talking to people who can help you.“

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Stooping in front of Ade to say goodbye in 1984 was my biggest mistake. Stooping in front of Ade at Baltimore Washington International airport before taking her brother with me to the Bay Area is the biggest mistake of my life. Agreeing to a court order that separated a four-year-old baby sister from her seven-year-old big brother, a big brother from his baby sister, was the biggest mistake of my life. I squatted inches from her sadness. Masking my own. I didn’t allow myself to fall into the shadows in her eyes. I failed to prioritize her pain. I whispered platitudes and told her we’d be together soon. Violated my father’s oath, my poet’s oath, against clichés and lies and pedestrian language. I can still see the betrayal on her beautiful blank face, stooping in front of Ade to say I’m leaving on a jet plane. How CLUELESS to think this scorched moment would resolve itself without inflaming our futures. My lack of discernment was really only a 25-year-old father’s fevered wish that divorce should allow me to accelerate past the pain. It would be three years before we saw each other again. Tell me a bedtime story about loss and resuscitation.

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It is phenomenal that my kid still wants to love me, still wants to work with me.

The elemental lessons for me? Live your WHOLE Life! Say EVERYTHING! Acknowledge when you’ve wreaked havoc and not happiness. Work on honoring the mysterious and making the miraculous. Live your ‘love with accountability,’ a magnificent concept and turn of phrase by Aishah Shahidah Simmons, editor of an anthology of the same name, to which Ade and I contributed.

My work to convert mistakes into wisdom, misunderstanding into mutual gain, loss into dedication, and paralysis into baby steps, has been threaded with candor, regret and atonement. I work to re-consecrate my father’s oath, my poet’s oath, without sentimentality. I own my past without sinking into its worst configurations. I hope Ade and I will continue to redefine family so it reflects the healthiest and most empathetic configuration we can shape.

Our arrival in 2020 has been fueled by the virtuoso art of CONVERSATING. Two folks, way past the biological facts of life, two adults, two histories inflamed by loss, continue to tell each other they remain valuable to each other. Two adults tell each other they believe in each other, when they could have chosen the painful comfort of silence. Two adults have found joy in the labor to keep their love intact, their initiative intact, their curiosity, laughter, and collaboration intact. Two adults have chosen to walk together guided by a genuine compact to live as family for the rest of their lives.

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She tells me that my ring tone on her current phone sounds like the rotary or push button phones of my youth! I laugh because I do embrace my Inner Cantankerous OG, who can absolutely hear those phones blaring in his memory!  

But I remember and prefer my ring tone from one of her first smart phones. She said it always jazzed her up, and jazzed up all nearby anybodies who heard her phone announce that it was Pops on the line.

My favorite ring tone?

After all our CONVERSATING, what else but … Let’s Groove!

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BONUS EXCERPT from my book, Black Man of Happiness: In Pursuit of My ‘Unalienable Right,’ WINNER, 2015 AMERICAN BOOK AWARD: “… I thought I had the hang of it. But later that week, somebody at day camp unhooked Ade’s plaits and substituted two smart cornrows. I got to soul searching again. Why didn’t I let somebody cornrow me out my constriction and be done with it? I was feeling out my league and locked out the circle of wisdom where these grooming secrets were passed on. Deep down, I was also plain embarrassed: Here I am, a grown man and I can’t even fix my own daughter’s hair. Then I got pissed! Here I was actually braiding her hair, but still having women redo styles without asking me for my permission, or asking whether or not I’d like their help. Turn the tables, I thought. Let me or some other man — day care director, boyfriend, husband, or candy man on the corner —  put his hands on one of their daughters, and be talking about, ‘Girl, I’m just doing a touch-up.’ Homegirl be cussing me out, dialing 911 on my ass, and  feeling around for a knife — all the while holding her daughter close, redoing the hairstyle, and wiping imaginary sleep out the child’s eyes!

My breakthrough came after an intense conversation with my friend Nikky Finney. She encouraged me to keep trying. Despite the tears, Nikky assured me, Adenike appreciated my hard work and would remember my determination all her life. Then, fingering her magnificent dreads, she fondly reminisced about the snap crackle and pop of her own mother’s hands. That night, I dreamed I had been going about it all wrong: I saw braiding as a chore, instead of as an opportunity for special intimacy with my daughter. I was too tentative. Every time she whimpered, I eased up and brushed only the surface of her hair. My dream also offered me some practical advice: Use more Dax Jack! Don’t make her Little Richard or nobody, but spread a little more sheen boy! I had a New Attitude our next session. We had gone swimming, and I got down, if I do say so myself. After I used shampoo and conditioner, her hair draped damply and unruly. But this time, with comb in hand, I took a deep breath and easily separated small portions until her scalp peeked out. Section by section, I parted her hair, fingering dressing down each row, until her crown had a fragrant glow to it. Handling Ade’s hair took my breath away. Slowly I braided and my satisfaction … deepened twist by tug by criss by cross. I transformed her Head of Hair into patterned plaits. Four well-woven strands and she hadn’t moaned at all. She looked into the mirror, rubbed her hands over the job, and nodded approvingly. I was fired up. Once again, I felt under control as a father. A part of me — quiet as its kept — was gleeful that Black women aren’t born knowing how to braid hair. Mostly, though, I felt good reconfirming that with perseverance, dedication and imagination I could learn to speak a loving, painless language to my daughter through her thick, healthy hair …” www.blackmanofhappiness.com/shop

Field(s) of Joy – Kiara Is Flying

June 1, 2020 By Peter Harris 1 Comment

At my best, I seek to contribute to a Field of Joy whenever I’m on the set.

Not even sure if it’s joy that I seek to contribute.

But that little word hints at the sensibility I’m summoning into the lexicon describing the fullness of my hunger. That lexicon now features ‘Black Joy’ in many manifestations.

Recently, even my dreams seem bent on helping me discern what’s distinctive about my testimony and action.

SYNERGY OF ONE … was emblazoned across my mind’s movie screen … I smelled an intoxicating fragrance I can’t describe. I took it to mean folks should inhale deeply and pleasurably when I’m at my best around them.

MY PROFILE … was whispered into my mind’s ear … I heard my voice reciting a eulogy that said simply, ‘You knew he was in the room when he was in the room.’   

WHY AM I HERE? … my mother and father, who died 10 years apart, were saying this to me as we cleaned up the kitchen in my childhood apartment in Parklands in D.C.

LINE DRIVES AND POP UPS … blinked from a stadium big screen, while down on the field, I’m taking batting practice. I swing the bat perfectly. With each stroke, line drives whine into left center field. With each swing, I remind myself: ‘Don’t waste your at-bats on pop ups!’

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Kiara is flying! 

My son shared a photo of my granddaughter, the point guard, during a regional playoff game in Florida. The concentration, exhilaration, confidence, and determination on her face gets at the Field of Joy I seek to contribute whenever I’m on the set at my best.

The same magic she shared with me at the bowling alley in the photo above! As young as she was, she was ready to fly. In my mind’s eye, I see her as a child — bold, competitive, open to the realm of her imagination.

Once I was pushing her on the swing at the playground. I still savor her 3-year-old’s blasé dismissal of chronology: ‘When you were little I used to push you on the swing’

Now at 15 she’s leading her high school basketball team. I text from California before games: enjoy yourself, play fair, and WIN (uh, yeah, we definitely playing to win!). This season, her team lost in the state championship by only six points in OT! And she scored 8 points, had 4 assists and 5 steals. I no longer have to stoop for us to high five.

Grandpa Peter must learn to fly!

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I once worked regularly with high school students. I accepted the challenge to teach them to value and define celebration as a key motivation for sustaining positive change. Among my approaches, I encouraged them to: 

Identify and cultivate life-affirming Inner Resources (hope, curiosity, courage, personal artistry).

Build ‘Inspiration Specs’ into your plans and strategies for creating healthy futures (How will I stay motivated? Which of my allies will lift my spirits when I’m sad? Where can I go for rejuvenation when I’m feeling defeated?). 

Intentionally and viscerally position yourself as first-among-equals in the fight to improve your lives.

Sharpen your abilities to identify and describe what you want to live for and how you plan to change for the better faster to reach your goals.

Fingerprint when you’ve been happy, joyful, creative, motivated, inspired, energized, and discern how you can recapture those moments, situations, and seasons in your lives.

Identify what roles your decisions and actions played in the unhappy and dangerous passages of your lives and pinpoint what elements (stories, people, relationships, ideas, root-causes, patterns, attitudes, lessons, teachers) combined in unique ways to create dissatisfying or satisfying experiences. 

Set within an atmosphere of ethics, accountability, and affirmation, I wanted to teach them to rigorously speak truth from deep within their unique experiences, and realize collective understandings, insights, and common ground.

I wanted their voices to provide the missing ingredient that can synchronize and harmonize society’s national dialogue about their fates. 

I wanted their voices to provide illumination about their individuality and raise society’s IQ (Inspiration Quotient) about how young people can continue to live sane, nonviolent lives, even when knocked to their knees by the dangers and challenges of modern living.  

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Since I started the Black Man of Happiness Project in 2010, I’m pleased to observe the evolution of several other humanizing initiatives focusing on ‘Black Joy,’ including:

Black Men Smile, designed to “ask Black Men what makes them smile…and work to create sustainable environments where we can do it more often” 

Black Joy and Resistance, A Photo Book by Adreinne Waheed

Sleeping Beauty, a photo-series by Kunjo of Brooklyn, NY, featuring “intimate portraits” of Black men while they sleep

Brother Breathe, Ashley Wilkerson’s “trauma-informed, creative workshop,” often held at The Tree South LA, specifically designed for Black boys and men seeking peace, which was inspired by her brother John John who was murdered at the age of 28.

I also note that California Humanities, the independent nonprofit and partner of the NEH, awarded a Quick Grant in Winter 2019 to Chapter 510 Ink in Oakland for a poetry workshop called “Black Joy: Poetry with Young Black Men.The workshop culminated with an anthology published by Nomadic Press, edited by Cal State Monterey Bay Professor Daniel B. Summerhill.

And in February 2020 the 3rd annual Black Joy Parade was held in Oakland.

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About three years ago, I was at a powerful gathering exploring the education of African American male students. Theme: 12 Years a Student. I was slotted to make a creative presentation right after lunch to the entire group. Honestly, I didn’t know what I planned to say or read, but I knew I would open up my 15-minute slot by playing the thumb piano (channeling big brother Maurice White).

Sound from the kalimba echoed throughout the roomful of educators, scholars, young folks, community workers, policy & admin ‘Civil Rights Warriors,’ all of whom work on some part of the front lines to protect, inspire and learn, in service of A/A male students.

Within seconds, we’d all entered a beautiful zone of serenity and magic and meditation. Before long, I began a story about how I once told former students on the first day of class:

‘Each one of you is a genius. It’s my job to help you find it and use it.’

I felt chills recounting a transformational time in my life. I suddenly heard to my left a young man quietly sobbing as I again played the kalimba to resolve my presentation.

Afterwards, I thanked him for his honest show of emotions. He thanked me for reminding him that inspiration plays a role in education. Not even sure if it was joy that I contributed to the set, but I was confident we could say to each other:

‘You knew he was in the room when he was in the room.’

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BONUS EXCERPT from my book, Black Man of Happiness: In Pursuit of My ‘Unalienable Right,’ WINNER, 2015 AMERICAN BOOK AWARD: “… As a mid-level elder, at 1,000 O’clock, I actually am happy. I’m glad to be alive, still feeling youthful, during this accelerated age. Joyful that I’ve helped educate hundreds of students since my 20s. But I’m also righteously indignant that in the public mind the idea of my happiness sounds strange, like it’s easier to glance up and see Jesus Crunking barefoot at a club than to conceive of a happy Black man. I ain’t saying we were violated any more than Black women, nor that we took none of this lying down. The resistance, the inventiveness, the self-reliance, the imagination, the very very well documented timeline of creative disturbance, from the continent of Africa to digital publishing, represents a hunger to remain human against individual and systematic beat downs on our bodies, minds, spirits, and potential. “They burn us when we dogs/They burn us when we men/They come by tens . . .” is the haunting, classically haunting, summation by the poet Sterling Brown. We were brought here to make somebody else happy then die. We were brought here to make somebody else rich then die. We were brought here to die making someone else rich and happy. Who cared about my pursuit of happiness back in the day? Who cares about my happiness now? All abolitionists and allies aside, and much respect to them all, our inner liberation has always been claimed or invented by each and every one of us, even as the most eloquent of brothers left an inspiring collective reservoir into which we could dip for a common language. The Black Man of Happiness … we’ve struggled to be first among equals who protect and maintain an interior world of freedom and purity and spontaneity and silliness …” www.blackmanofhappiness.com/shop

During a Pandemic – Lift Every Vision & Sing

April 26, 2020 By Peter Harris Leave a Comment

“… Crucial to finding the way is this: there is no beginning or end. You must make your own map.” Joy Harjo  [A Map to the Next World]

“… won’t you celebrate with me … that everyday something has tried to kill me and has failed.” Lucille Clifton  [won’t you celebrate with me]

“… And who will join this standing up … we are the ones we have been waiting for …” June Jordan  [poem for South African Women]

“… Who stole the hearts and minds of the humble hard-working folk until they too became moralistic and self-righteous: senators, bishops, presidents, missionaries, corporation presidents?” Simon Ortiz  [From Sand Creek]

“… Blessed/are those who listen/when no one is left to speak …” Linda Hogan  [Blessings]

“… sadness is a chemical one atom away from joy/heroism is a spiritual one history away from slavery …” Peter J. Harris  [Complete Already]

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During a pandemic, I remain dedicated to Wreaking Happiness, in the spirit of human ancestors on this land – especially Indigenous and my own cultural ancestors – who set a magnificent example, that can be studied empirically, of lifting every vision and voice into song and action despite encountering social ugliness of epic proportions.

I remain dedicated to singing in the chorus of human beings keeping their eyes on the prize of public health and wise governance. I remain dedicated to working for the world we want, and to the work covered in this succinct statement from Yes! Magazine: “We must be willing to get our hands dirty, to both try new things and trust age-old knowledge, and to be uncomfortable.”

I will continue to sing with the chorus of cultural workers, journalists, Inspectors General, loyal opposition, and Everyday People who see it as our ethical duty to illuminate and resist the anti-democratic, racist, self-serving, truth-deformed, and power-grabbing politics radiating from the White House and from demagogues and policy makers from Brazil, Hungary, India and other national houses of power around the world.

“The study of happiness never was a luxury to be postponed until more serene, peaceful times,” writes Sissela Bok in her bookExploring Happiness: From Aristotle to Brain Science (2011). “… From earliest times, views of human happiness have been set forth against the background of suffering, poverty, disease, and the inevitability of death.”  [Page 5 and 6]

“Trying to envision “somewhere in advance of nowhere,” as poet Jayne Cortez puts it, is an extremely difficult task, yet it is a matter of great urgency,” writes Robin D.G. Kelley, in his book,Freedom Dreams: The Black Radical Imagination. “Without new visions we don’t know what to build, only what to knock down….”  [Page xii Preface]

“… And my mama – not one to traffic in metaphors, usually, being a very scientific woman – would add, ‘Yeah, speak your speak, ‘cause every silence you maintain is liable to become first, a lump in your throat, then a lump in your lymphatic system,’” writes Toni Cade Bambara, in ‘The Education of a Storyteller,’ from Deep Sightings and Rescue Missions, Fictions, Essays, And Conversations [page 255]

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As I take daily walks during the pandemic, I wave to many folks out with children and dogs. What a joy to exchange well wishes with men and women exercising their bodies and smartly claiming public space. Also, I see folks, fully masked, whose body language suggests they are terrified. They lower their heads. They practically scurry to cross the street, to stride away from my path, or to accelerate past me, as if Covid-19 could simply leap between us like a vile ninja! It takes all kinds, as Moms used to say!

Folks can get sick, be sick, without inevitable death and social dysfunction.

Society can choose democratic disbursement of our tax dollars, wage replacement grants to small business. Leaders can communicate with an overall rigor and candor on behalf of public service beyond the platitudes of Instagram notecards (although I especially co-sign this IG notecard: “If you think artists are useless try to spend your quarantine without music, books, poems, movies paintings and games.”)

Society, in the elemental sense of that word, doesn’t have to embrace fealty to Boeing or the hubris of other so-called too-big-to-fail brands, or real estate moguls, or Dark Money puppeteers. Society doesn’t have to privatize production of medical equipment, or tests, or the production of vaccines, or eliminate the oversight of disbursement of public dollars.

We have evidence of so many more humane visions. You no doubt are a witness through your own prisms, your own analyses or processes for change. You no doubt can pinpoint welcome examples of resistance, persistence, and humane existence.

Among mine: Center for the Study of Political Graphics, with its collection of political posters “advancing the power of art to educate and inspire people to action.”

The alternative or People’s Budget produced in the U.S. House of Representatives by the Progressive Caucus, representing a vision of what control of public resources could do if We the People were the focus of national expenditures.

The Poor People’s Campaign – A National Call for Moral Revival has proferred a humane agenda both during the pandemic and as a larger motivating vision.

Through whichever lens you view Life on this American Earth, it’s important to remember – as a starting point – that government is ours, and that our ideas, our insights, our priorities, are as important as those whose income allows them obscene access, criminal influence, and quid pro quo after quid pro quo.   

“Radical change for Ella Baker was about a persistent and protracted process of discourse, debate, consensus, reflection, and struggle,” writes Barbara Ransby in her book,Ella Baker & the Black Freedom Movement: a Radical Democratic Vision.Ella Baker, like Bayard Rustin, is one of those human ancestors whose life-long, often anonymous, service instructs and inspires me. “If larger and larger numbers of communities were engaged in such a process, she reasoned, day in and day out, year after year, the revolution would be well under way. Ella Baker understood that laws, structures, and institutions had to change in order to correct injustice and oppression, but part of the process had to involve oppressed people, ordinary people, infusing new meaning into the concept of democracy and finding their own individual and collective power to determine their lives and shape the direction of history.” [Page 1]

∞

Even with obvious anti-democratic, racist, self-serving, truth-deformed, and power-grabbing politics radiating from the White House, I am grateful I can find in my life, on social media, in journalism, examples of inspired Mutual Aid, Mutual Encouragement, and nationwide evidence of a society inspired to see beyond pandemic. I’m grateful I can see folks all marshaling digital tools to mitigate isolation during Shelter in Place orders.

Thank you dancers, poets, musicians, political thinkers, health care professionals, urban gardeners, moral and spiritual practitioners. And thanks to my own relatives zooming our stories, history, laughter, and political commentary from D.C.-Maryland down I-95 to North Carolina and Florida and across I-10 to California, where my youngest daughter and I live and work.

In Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz’s bracing book, An Indigenous Peoples’ History of the United States, she mentions a term called “Terminal Narratives” by anthropologist Michael V. Wilcox: “accounts of Indian histories which explain the absence, cultural death, or disappearance of Indigenous peoples.” [Page 42]

Dunbar-Ortiz critiques a school of thought asserting that the Indigenous-European Encounter would inevitably have debilitated and disappeared Native folk, because of their lack of immunity to what were, to them, ‘novel’ virus [e.g. smallpox, measles].

“Such an absolutist assertion renders any other fate for the Indigenous peoples improbable,” Dunbar-Ortiz states, because it fails to account for the impact of relentless structural forces [military, ideological, religious, political policies, among others]. [Page 39] Terminal Narratives “… emphasize attrition by disease despite other causes equally deadly, if not more so,” according to Dunbar-Ortiz, and refuses to “accept that the colonization of America was genocidal by plan, not simply the tragic fate of populations lacking immunity to disease. In the case of the Jewish Holocaust, no one denies that more Jews died of starvation, overwork, and disease under Nazi incarceration than died in gas ovens, yet the acts of creating and maintaining the conditions that led to those deaths clearly constitute genocide.” [Pages 41-42].

For me, Wreaking Happiness means resisting any type of Terminal Narratives during the Covid-19 pandemic. And pointing out that the early impact of the disease on who survives, and who thrives, is being (and will be) affected in such a manner that even trillion dollar ‘investments’ of our tax dollars are more akin to schemes mostly benefiting the same folk and institutions currently profiting from contemporary inequitable social circumstances, such as prison overcrowding; lack of health care for all and an effective, compassionate service superstructure for all; less-than-livable wages and overpriced housing; courts stacked with pre-fab judges who fail Bar Association muster; targeted sweeps by ICE, Border Patrol, and local police; and the disappearing of undocumented immigrants, asylum seekers, and homeless neighbors.  

“The mandarins who are managing this pandemic are fond of speaking of war. They don’t even use war as a metaphor, they use it literally,” writes Arundhati Roy in her essay, ‘The pandemic is a portal.’ “But if it really were a war, then who would be better prepared than the US? If it were not masks and gloves that its frontline soldiers needed, but guns, smart bombs, bunker busters, submarines, fighter jets and nuclear bombs, would there be a shortage?”

∞

Robin D.G. Kelley entitles one chapter of Freedom Dreams: ‘Keeping It (Sur)real: Dreams of the Marvelous,’ tracing rich connections and influences of Black creativity and surrealism, which he describes as a “living, mutable, creative vision of a world where love, play, human dignity, an end to poverty and want, and imagination are the pillars of freedom.” [Page 158]

Cultivating the Marvelous is a liberating way to activate my brain’s biochemistry and supercharge my quest to weave hopeful stories, and seek lush motivation to live a life that will make proud my late mother and father and the other unpretentious aunties and uncles who imprinted me with Each One Teach One.

Cultivating the Marvelous is my antidote, neutralizer, and converter against cynicism, doubt, and anxiety, amidst the onslaught of mythological greed, selfishness, and supremacies of all kinds from power elites implementing social strategies drawn from the abysmal laboratories of feudalism, slavery, colonialism, Nazism, and their vile scapegoating justifications.

“When we become immersed in a story, the brain shifts from attending to our immediate surroundings to imagining the details of the narrative world,” states a summary of research on the website of the Brain and Creativity Institute at USC. “Understanding this process and its underlying neurobiology may be a key to understanding how stories exert their influence.”

Though I don’t need brain scans to know that a well-rendered story enraptures, I welcome rigorous science on the impact of envisioning another world, and “the brain mechanisms that mediate narrative immersion.”

For now, in closing, I echo the question in New Edition’s hit song: Can you stand the rain?

I can, I believe, with Hope and History, and so I resolve in communion with uplifting words from two generations of the inspiring Harding family, heirs to Ella Baker and Bayard Rustin’s legacy. Rosemarie Freeney Harding and Dr. Vincent Harding, compassionate participants in the Black-led human rights movement of the 1950’s and 1960s, make me proud to be a human being.

First, scholar Rachel Elizabeth Harding on her mother Rosemarie Freeney Harding:

“Mama had an acute and gentle intelligence about navigating the world…,” writes Harding in the intro to a book she co-authored with her late Moms, Remnants: A Memoir of Spirit, Activism, and Mothering. “…Her understanding of social justice activism situated struggle very comfortably alongside hospitality and mothering. This is a meaning of activism I have not seen widely discussed among scholars, but the women of the Southern Freedom Movement (and their families) know about it. More than anything, it is an activism based in “being family” – bringing people into the house, literally and figuratively. Making room and making welcome. Letting people know there is room for them in the vision, in the struggle, in the nation, in the family.”

And from Ms. Harding later on in Remnants:  “One of the most exciting things for me about being in the freedom movement was discovering other people who were compelled by the Spirit at the heart of our organizing work, and who were also interested in the mysticism that can be nurtured in social justice activism.  …There was an energy moving in those times. Something other than just sit-ins and voter registration and Freedom Schools. Something represented by these signal efforts but broader. As I traveled around the country in the sixties, it seemed to me that the nation – from the largest community to the smallest – was permeated with hope; that people can bring about transformation; that what we do matters. [Page 168]

And from our late Big Brother, Dr. Vincent Harding, from Hope and History: Why We Must Share the Story of the Movement:

“Somehow, in a time like our own, when the capacity for imagining appears to be endangered …, it seems especially crucial to introduce our students to the meaning of such a question as, “Is America Possible?” … Indeed, it is precisely in a period of great spiritual and social hunger like our own that we most need to open minds, hearts, and memories to those times when women and men actually dreamed of new possibilities for our nation, for our world, for their own lives. It is now that we may be able to convey the stunning idea that dreams, imagination, vision, and hope are actually powerful mechanisms in the creation of new realities. Especially when the dreams go beyond speeches and songs to become embodied, to take on flesh, in real, hard places.” [Page 178]  

… Like during a pandemic — when we need all citizens of witness and liberation to become alchemists of our most humane future …

∞

BONUS EXCERPT from my book, Black Man of Happiness: In Pursuit of My ‘Unalienable Right,’ WINNER, 2015 AMERICAN BOOK AWARD: “… I dream of The Black Man of Happiness…. He is vibration, receptor, animating force. He wants to be well, to paraphrase Toni Cade Bambara’s opening line in The Salt Eaters. He is drum major of The Turn. Healing Trajectory. Bedrock. He is quest for perfection, the rumble beneath our doubts, the resonance of anticipation, heroic sensibility, point guard. Just standing there, you can hear the tone of reconciliation and resurrection emanating from his spiritual combustion …” www.blackmanofhappiness.com/shop

He Ain’t Heavy – Birthday Brotherhood Meditation

April 3, 2020 By Peter Harris Leave a Comment

Joyful Boys – Dance in My Light
African American children, False River, Louisiana. Lomax, Alan, 1915-2002, photographer. 1934 July. Lomax Collection (LOT 7414), Library of Congress Prints and Photographs Division Washington, D.C. 20540 USA. Photographic Print. Link: http://www.loc.gov/pictures/resource/ppmsc.00324/?co=lomax

* Helen Cate, Research Librarian; Funded in part by The Pollination Project; #seedthechange; design by Julie Ray Creative

I turn 65 on April 26. WTF how did THAT happen! I offer you a stream of concentrated moments, and a praise poem, Always a Black Man, to celebrate a lifetime of instructive and illuminating brotherhood.

∞

Lip-synching classic Temptations and stepping in rhythm to Motown’s Funk Brothers at Bernard’s apartment during my adolescence in Southeast D.C.

Laughing at Blazing Saddles with Lawrence and Chris and Steve in the dark of a movie house; laughing even harder when I fell over a seat blocking our aisle as we filed out the theater!

Marveling as my brother Ron played a favorite Motown song for what seemed like 25 straight times – on turntable during the 1960s; on iPod in the 21st Century!

Cringing as my brother Glenn cussed me out from the pitcher’s mound after my fourth straight error at shortstop during a college baseball game.

Clenching David’s handshake for the first time after a TV interview when he stood inches from my face insisting: “WE need to meet!”

Listening in awe to this ineffable rendition of He Ain’t Heavy by Donny Hathaway.

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Interviewing Richard Pryor at his home with Greg Tate for Vibe Magazine.

Missing my comeback cue later that night when Richard Pryor snapped, “nigger would you shut the fuck up” outside House of Blues waiting for his wife to escort him to see Etta James perform.

Scanning the audience in fear as Dick Gregory welcomed “the CIA agent assigned to follow me” before a speech at Howard University’s Cramton Auditorium!

Interviewing Dick Gregory after he’d just returned from Iran in a Delaware hotel with Rock Newman for the Wilmington News Journal.

Distilling my own uncensored voice from Pryor, Gregory, and the Laughing, Lying, and Signifying—The Underground Tradition of African-American Humor that Transformed American Culture, from Slavery to Richard Pryor — examined in Mel Watkins’ book On the Real Side.

Listening in awe to this ineffable rendition of Everything Must Change by Benard Ighner.

∞

Wiping tears as my father told stories in the car outside our old house on 5th Street S.E. on the rainy December afternoon one month before he died.

Blushing as my father asked me if I pulled my lover’s hairs apart when I showed him a rash on my adolescent Johnson.

Smoldering as my father yelled defensively about his drinking: “Don’t I go to work everyday? Don’t I put food on the table?”

Thanking my father for allowing my wife and I to live temporarily in his basement apartment when we moved from Cali to DC!

Understanding my father saying I could not live temporarily in his basement apartment after my wife and I separated!

Listening in awe to this ineffable rendition of Dance With My Father by Luther Vandross.

∞

Always a Black Man

For Brian, Anthony, Curtis, David, Terrell, Roger G., Datcher, O’shea, Conney, Willie, Zef, Cleve, Jamil, Gilmore, Kenny, Charles, Ethelbert, Paul, Milton, Ketema, Greg, Jelani, Kahari   

there’s always a Black man in my life
a Homie found the power of spine
percolating
with ways to
shorten
my crisis
extend   my   climax
this man is there
even when it’s a drag for him
he steps through the shadows
becomes an incorruptible senator
the instant my troubling light
falls on his empathetic face
& right away
he’s gathering all the facts
gaveling
to start a public hearing
with hours as convenient as a 7-11

there’s always a Black man who grants my wishes
a Walkboy lined his pockets with psalms
ripening
with ways to
soothe
my doubt
prolong   my   high
that man is here
even when confusion weakens his meaning
he steps through the contradictions
becomes a medicating genie
soon as we make eye contact
& right away
he’s floating up under my confessions
X-raying through the bullshit
sifting for faults
measuring for serenity
while always
speaking his revelations
like Miles on All Blues

there’s always a Black man in my life
my man
laughing desert water in my ears

erupting
so unstatistical
living
for more than just the weekend

24-7…
we’re crammed between
every second of our lives
without a mirror’s yardstick
without a hint
that any generosity
will be reimbursed
& in the grinding
steady guarding against specified meltdowns

there are Black men in our lives
always
yes, Black men
in our lives
there’s always a Black man in our lives
always
in our lives alive alive alive   well

∞

Spending the night at Melvin’s house after my first divorce.

Eating fries at McDonald’s after Melvin picked me up from BWI to drive me to my mother’s funeral.

Standing with Melvin at his own father’s funeral.

Reuniting at Melvin’s house with Daki, Avon and Ralph for a gray-haired reunion of the  1970s cohort who used to meet weekly at Ralph’s crib in downtown Baltimore.

Shouting ‘remember-when’ stories at Melvin from his guest room as two grown-ass men fought to stay awake on a sleepover at his house in Baltimore.

Listening in awe to this ineffable rendition of Ooh Child by Dwight Trible.

∞

Learning from Thomas A. Gordon that Master Negotiators can ‘walk away!’

Swooning to Kofi Opoku’s idea that proverbs are the Haiku of a people’s wisdom.

Relaxing when Sterling A. Brown told me, “if I can’t read my poetry louder than a toddler’s babble,” then he shouldn’t be standing at the microphone.

Honoring Haki Madhubuti, Kofi Lomotey, Kweli Tutashinda, Kalamu ya Salaam, Professor Samuel F. Yette and Professor Lewis Fenderson for educating me in books and classrooms, on sidewalks and in cyberspace.

Listening in awe to this ineffable rendition of Chimes of Freedom by Youssou N’Dour.

∞

Laughing with Darrell until we ignited smiles in other passengers while riding the train to Brighton Beach on my first visit to London.

Risking public laughter with total strangers while riding LA’s Metro buses and trains.

Believing Michael’s assurances that ‘we have what we need’ no matter the circumstances.

Harmonizing along with big brother Ron while attending Smokey Robinson’s Hollywood Bowl concert.

Smiling at the wistful way big brother Glenn told us to “Go in Friendship” when he retired from his Emmy-winning TV show SportsTalk.

Listening in awe to this ineffable rendition of The Places You Find Love by Quincy Jones.

∞

BONUS EXCERPT from my book, Black Man of Happiness: In Pursuit of My ‘Unalienable Right,’ WINNER, 2015 AMERICAN BOOK AWARD: “… Listen … it’s no question, and I understood this even in my 20s, that great singing, great music, is an ineffable emotional aphrodisiac under any circumstances. I am definitely not saying I had to lip synch Rose Royce (“…I’m going down …”) in order for pop ballads to become 4-minute mantras of metamorphoses. But I have come to discern that this unbidden, flu-ridden, rite of passage was a genuine Round the Way Initiation. I had a 20-something revelation that I could face what scared me, what scarred me, what stymied me, but only if I invested in my own genius and established my own elemental endowment. I sensed I had discovered a sensual and regenerative operating system for the rest of my life, to deal with my drama, to activate my potential, to consolidate my triumphs. My insights have distilled over the years into my own mantras.

Accountability is the midwife of credibility. Refuse the siren song of blame. Withstand the sting of conviction. Measure your own value and distinction. Recognize that creativity is my ally in the worst seasons. Apply creativity in the worst seasons. Start at the age epiphany strikes. Trust that familiar tools, currencies, and modes often come embedded (encoded?) with motivation, abundance, and exhilaration. Don’t let the snap, crackle, pop of new grooves throw you off beat. Communication is the currency of collaboration. Never be afraid to wear your Griot Clothes.

Then repeat, peep game, adopt lessons, evaluate.
Repeat, peep game, adopt lessons, evaluate.
Repeat, peep game, adopt lessons, evaluate.
Until, like compound interest on a spiritual exercise regimen, life affirming patterns can become lifetime practical habits.…” www.blackmanofhappiness.com/shop

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